Monday, September 14, 2015

Pray for Marriages (Patient Communication)

Greetings Prayer Warriors,

Recently, I met a new colleague at my company, a 38-year-old single male.   Inevitably, I asked him if he was in a relationship and he confided that he and his girlfriend just broke up, but they would probably get back together.  “Did one of you want to get married and the other not?” I prodded.  “No, we both were moving toward marriage but then we both freaked out!” he replied.  A communication problem?” I inquired. “Yes!”  He replied without hesitating. “I want to talk about things, but she is more introverted,” he confided.  “Let me guess, you come at her wanting to talk about everything, but the more you come at her the more she withdraws?”  “Yes, exactly!” he acknowledged. “Communication is pretty important in a marriage,” I advised. “Perhaps you could seek some pre-marital counseling to learn how to communicate better?”  “She IS a counselor!” he replied. “A marriage and family counselor!” All I could do was laugh, but secretly hoped they would find some help, because poor communication is the bane of almost every bad marriage.

He sees many things, but does not observe them; his ears are open, but he does not hear. Isaiah 42:10

Lord, give both engaged and married couples the desire to improve their communication and listening skills.  Please be generous with your grace, giving couples the patience to listen passively, to speak the truth with love and gentleness, and to hear truth shared in love.  As two are made one in marriage, continue to weave couples lives into unique tapestries that show the beauty made by two lives intertwined.  Oh Prince of Peace, may all married couples be given a holy desire to know you more, to trust you more, and to love you more.  Amen!

Be of one mind, sympathetic, loving toward one another, compassionate, humble. Do not return evil for evil, or insult for insult; but on the contrary, a blessing, because to this you were called, that you might inherit a blessing. 1 Peter 3:8-9

Peace, Joy, and Love,
Janet

Improve communication both horizontally (between one another) and vertically (to the heavens).  Pray!! Pass it on!