Monday, June 18, 2018

Pray for Marriages (Faith of the Fathers)

Greetings Prayer Warriors,

The research results are surprising and somewhat alarming. Yet, I wonder how often these conversations occur when a couple discusses marriage and family.

If children are part of the equation, do couples discuss whether or not they will raise them up in a faith tradition, especially since many couples now shun church weddings and instead opt for destination/event weddings? 

If they do baptize their child(ren), do they remember what they vowed as parents?

Should they actually marry, have children, and baptize them, do they discuss who will teach their children about God and whether they will regularly attend church?

Satan, the king of discouragement, sees fertile ground and loves to lull couples into complacency.  Without a thought to it’s far-reaching impact, faith is deserted or it becomes “personal,” just between them and God.

Perhaps you are feeling good, because while you are not the religious one in the family, your faith-filled wife is teaching your children how to live for God, and taking them to church on Sundays, because after all, that is your day to golf, watch sports, etc.

Think again. Ready for your wake up call?

A spiritual battle ensues, without you even being aware of Satan’s stealth plan for your souls.

…the evil one comes and steals away what was sown in his heart. 
Matthew 13:19

A large study* showed that if the wife practices her faith and her husband does not, there is only a 2% chance their children will grow up to be regular worshippers. 2%!! On the other hand, if the father is the churchgoer and spiritual head of the family, the odds increase to 75% that their children will regularly practice their faith as adults.

“And I sought for a man among them who should build up the wall and stand in the breach before Me for the land …” Ezekiel 22:30

This week let us encourage fathers not only to marry, but to also practice their faith. Showing one’s children how to live for God, is the most powerful conversation of all.

Lord, open the eyes of husbands and fathers to the true value you have endowed them with.  Renew, empower and strengthen them.  Hear our prayers as we pray that their marriages be blessed and each father’s vocal and silent witness of your love brings the Word to their children’s hearts. Amen!

Peace, Joy, and Love,
Janet

Live in imitation of Christ, and your children will be drawn to the Christ in you! Pass it on! 

*study was done by the Swiss government in 1994; published in 2000.