Greetings Prayer Warriors,
Scripture speaks a lot about judgement. But it also esteems discernment.
Judgment is about criticizing and forming negative opinions, lowering others, and in essence, elevating ourselves. Whereas discernment is more thoughtful, focusing on what is right, appropriate, or beneficial to an individual, seeking understanding while retaining boundaries.
Thus, we should not judge, especially in our marriages (where it can come too easily)!
Stop judging and you will not be judged. Stop condemning and you will not be condemned. Forgive and you will be forgiven. Luke 6:37
Wise words. However, marriage does call for discernment, so that we may respond and act in a manner appropriate to the situation.
The wise of heart is esteemed for discernment. Proverbs 16:21
Wisdom can remain silent in the discerning heart, but among fools she must make herself known. Proverbs 14:33
In marriage, focus on discerning while seeking to mitigate any judgement. Be gentle with your spouse and yourself, pondering each situation in life, just as our Blessed Mother did.
Who can discern his own errors? Cleanse me from my hidden faults.
Psalm 19:12
Lord, bless us in our marriages, that we may reflect more our own actions rather than those of others. In prayer, help us see the way. Take us by the hand and guide us.
It does not concern me in the least that I be judged by you or any human tribunal; I do not even pass judgment on myself. 1 Corinthians 4:3
Love remains the answer!
Peace, Joy, and Love,
Janet
Love, pray, and pass it on!
