Monday, February 25, 2019

Pray for Marriages (It's More Than a Phase)

Greetings Prayer Warriors,

Each stage of marriage has its rewards… and challenges. Let me take a shot at defining them.

The  Phases:
  • Honeymoon
  • Discovery
  • Adjustment
  • Parenthood
  • OMG Help me
  • The I’m not liking who I’ve become
  • I’m not liking who my spouse has become
  • Settled
  • Old, tired, reflective

A couple doesn’t get from beginning to end without abundant grace, a gift from God we must accept and open ourselves to.  While the Lord spends years molding and refining us in the fire of His love, we don’t usually see it as a gift.  Yet in the later years of marriage, we see the beauty of His gift and its effect on our life.

Although now for a little while you may have to suffer through various trials, so that the genuineness of your faith, more precious than gold that is perishable even though tested by fire, may prove to be for praise, glory, and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ. 1 Peter 1:6-7

Pray for married couples, perhaps focusing on a phase that was most difficult for you.  May your prayers multiply the grace for them and for yourself!

And the ransomed of the LORD shall return, and enter Zion singing, crowned with everlasting joy.  Isaiah 35:10

Peace, Joy, and Love,
Janet

Prayer is a gift to be shared. Pass it on!

Friday, February 22, 2019

Pray for Families (Keeping the Faith)

Greetings Prayer Warriors,

Everyone wants the best for their family members, which can mean different things to different people. However, for one who has faith and a relationship with the Lord, they also want their families to have that same joy, comfort, peace, love, and all the richness of that relationship. More importantly though, in this era of constant “noise” that competes with the Truth, we want to know that our loved ones stay grounded in He who is Truth and Life. We want them to know true Love.

I have prayed that your own faith may not fail; and once you have turned back, you must strengthen your brothers.” Luke 22:32

Humble, sincere prayer has a power beyond our understanding. Ground yourself in the Word. Persevere in prayer, and your prayer will clothe your family with grace. 

Peace, Joy, and Love,
Janet

Prayer is the one thing you can control. So go on a prayer binge! Pass it on!

Monday, February 18, 2019

Pray for Marriages (Free Choice)

Greetings Prayer Warriors, 

God in the beginning created human beings and made them subject to their own free choice.

Love is a daily choice.

If you choose, you can keep the commandments; loyalty is doing the will of God.

Lord, we need your grace to choose what’s right. Free us from being seduced my our disordered desires.

Set before you are fire and water; to whatever you choose, stretch out your hand.

Lord, make us cognizant that each decision we make will be a step toward Life or away from Life.

Before everyone are life and death, whichever they choose will be given them.  Sirach 15:14-17

Choose Life!

Lord, without you we are without hope. What we want to do and actually do are often opposed to each other. Send your Spirit upon us that we may be filled with your love.  Help us surrender to your will. Help us to be patient, kind, and loving spouses.  Bless and heal those marriages which we hold in prayer, as well as those marriages struggling in silence.

Peace, Joy, and Love,
Janet

Prayer can change hearts, including your own. Pass it on! 

Friday, February 15, 2019

Pray for Families (Faith in Him)

Greetings Prayer Warriors,

One must smile when they consider that God gave us only 10 commandments to follow. How hard could that be to follow, right? Then later, Jesus distilled the commandments into two:

“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength. The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.” Mark 12:30-31 


“I only have to love?” you chuckle to yourself, muttering, “That’s easy”.
  • We tell ourselves that we are good (well at least better than most).
  • We are kind to our neighbors (when it’s convenient)
  • We don’t lie (well only when it’s necessary)
  • We don’t really gossip (it’s information exchange)
  • Envy? Greed? Everybody wants needs more things, don’t they?

No matter how we much we slip into sin, a voice inside says, “That wasn’t really a sin, was it? No one got hurt. Isn’t sin a thing of the past?” Denial is very powerful. But without prayer and the sacraments, are we any less vulnerable than Eve to the soft, alluring voice of the Evil One?

But the snake said to the woman: “You certainly will not die! Genesis 3:4 

Pray that you will not be deceived. Remain in conversation with God so that you will know his voice. Stay close to the Truth, and He will set you free. Strengthen your perseverance by partaking of the sacraments.

When he saw their faith, he said, “As for you, your sins are forgiven.” 
Luke 5:20

Peace, Joy, and Love,
Janet

Keep the faith, pray for your family and pass it on!

Monday, February 11, 2019

Pray for Marriages (Healing Waters, Healing Graces)

Greetings Prayer Warriors, 

We know the Lord is a mystery, but I am in constant awe of His Mystery. His ways often make no sense, yet then He unexpectedly reveals Himself.

Today is the feast of Our Lady of Lourdes.* Lourdes, a town in the foothills of the Pyrenees in France, is known for its healing waters. It was here that the Blessed Virgin Mary appeared to a poor, young girl, named Bernadette in 1858.  After several appearances near a grotto, she asked the young girl to scrape away the soil nearby and miraculously water began to trickle out, eventually becoming a spring.  The waters of Lourdes soon became known as “healing waters", and today the site is frequently visited by those seeking healing of body or soul.

Ironically, my wedding anniversary is on this feast day. It is through unanticipated healing waters of grace that I am able to say that I have been married 35 years.

"I do not promise to make you happy in this world but in the other." 
Blessed Virgin Mother to Bernadette. 

Happiness is good, but holiness is more important.  May we seek not just happiness in our marriages, but holiness. The Blessed Mother asked a few things of Bernadette: Pray the rosary†, do penance (make sacrifices), and pray for the conversion of sinners. Let us become bolder in our prayer and offer any crosses which we carry for the conversion of sinners.

Lord, we ask you for the healing of body, heart, mind, and soul. May any hurtful memories be washed away, may the blessings in our marriages be magnified, and may hope be restored, especially to those who have lost it. Lord, please continue to renew our prayer life!

For the Lamb. will shepherd them and lead them to springs of life-giving water, and God will wipe away every tear from their eyes. Revelation 7:17

I have heard your prayer, I have seen your tears; behold, I will heal you. 2 Kings 20:5


Jesus, we trust in you. Thank you for all the times throughout history you have sent your Blessed Mother to gently remind us of your commands.

Peace, Joy, and Love,
Janet

If you love one another, the need for prayer never ends. Pass it on! 


Friday, February 8, 2019

Pray for Families (Happiness from Here to Eternity)

Greetings Prayer Warriors,

Herod was a typical political figure.  He craved power and pleasure, and wanted to look good in front of his peers. Yet, God gave him a conscience too.

Herod, imprisoned John the Baptist at the urging of his wife.  He never wanted to kill him.  He was fascinated by John’s righteousness, and most likely couldn’t name what he felt around John; it was most likely the holiness radiating from John that gave him pause. 

But those in political power often cow tow to the wishes of others, even when they know it to be wrong. Herodias, Herod’s unlawful wife, (as she was the wife of Herod’s brother) had a hate for John the Baptist, because he called out their sin. Although Herodias didn’t realize it, John was actually being merciful* toward them by admonishing their sin. But ignoring any remnant of her conscience, she plotted revenge against him by having her daughter ask Herod for John’s head on a platter. Herod complied so as not to look weak in front of his influential and powerful guests.

You, son of man—I have appointed you as a sentinel for the house of Israel; when you hear a word from my mouth, you must warn them for me. When I say to the wicked, “You wicked, you must die,” and you do not speak up to warn the wicked about their ways, they shall die in their sins, but I will hold you responsible for their blood. If, however, you warn the wicked to turn from their ways, but they do not, then they shall die in their sins, but you shall save your life. Ezekial 33:7-9

The challenge of guiding someone to the Truth by encouraging that they walk away from sin remains just as difficult today as it was then.  Most recipients of admonishment will seek to crucify you in the court of public opinion if challenged. Conversely, if someone calls YOU out, your response wouldn’t necessarily be, “Why thank you my merciful friend!”  But your conscience would be nudged.

We must seek to know Truth if we are to guide someone away from sin, for He who is Truth is always more desirable than sin. He is the fulfillment of all desire.  So when someone justifies their sin or the sin of another because “I just want (them) to be happy”, we must pause and reflect. We all have a desire to be “happy”. Yet, happiness in this life is only fleeting.  Shouldn’t we want eternal happiness for ourselves and our loved ones??  What good is happiness in this life if we are eternally unhappy??  Saints such as John the Baptist knew this, and were strengthened in their holiness to be a light for others. 

Pray for yourself and your family members, that none of you will be seduced by the allure of earthly status, power and pleasure, but rather be focused on trying to live a life of holiness.  Like John, may your holiness give others pause, so that all God’s children may receive everlasting joy in eternity.

Peace, Joy, and Love,
Janet

Prayer saves souls.  Pray without ceasing.  Pass it on!